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About
❤️ MARRIAGE & PREMARITAL COUNSELING
40+ Years of Experience | Gottman Institute Certified Therapist
Every marriage faces challenges. You don't have to face them alone.
Are you struggling with repeated arguments, emotional distance, unresolved hurts, or a loss of connection? With over 40 years of experience and specialized training through the Gottman Institute, I help couples understand their challenges and discover practical ways to reconnect and move forward.
❤️ FREE 30-MINUTE CONVERSATION
Let's talk about what's happening in your relationship and whether I'm the right person to help. No pressure or obligation.
🌿 FIRST SESSION — JUST $45
Our first 60-minute session helps us explore your relationship, identify your greatest challenges, and discuss a path forward. Afterward, you decide whether to continue.
🔧 AREAS WHERE I CAN HELP
Communication • Conflict Resolution • Emotional Connection • Rebuilding Trust • Forgiveness • Healthy Boundaries • Healing Emotional Wounds
💻 VIRTUAL COUNSELING
Convenient, private Zoom sessions from the comfort of your home.
💲 SESSION PRICING
❤️ FREE 30-Minute Conversation — $0
🌿 First 60-Minute Session — $45
💬 Single 60-Minute Session — $75
🤝 5-Session Package — $350 (Save $25)
🏡 10-Session Package — $650 (Save $100)
🎁 BONUS: The 10-session package includes my "30 Days Back to Us" daily relationship email series.
👤 INDIVIDUAL COUNSELING
You can begin working on your relationship even if your spouse isn't ready to participate.
💍 PREMARITAL COUNSELING
Build a strong foundation for marriage. Ask about premarital packages.
🙏 FAITH & VALUES
As a pastor and marriage counselor, I offer Biblical insight when requested, without pressure or judgment.
🤝 MY COMMITMENT TO YOU
I'll always be honest about my experience and whether I'm the right person to help. If your needs require specialized expertise beyond my training, I'll let you know. Your well-being matters more than gaining another client.
❤️ A healthier marriage begins with taking the first step. I'd be glad to help.
Overview
Hired 161 times
Serves Frankfort, IN
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1 employee
43 years in business
Business hours
SunClosedMon10:00 am - 8:00 pm
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Eddy L.
Mar 28, 2025
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Hired on Thumbtack
Pastor Tom is an amazing marriage coach, he listens, he understands & never judges.. he takes care of every single detail & he is a big help to restore marriage…
Pastor Tom Counseling (by Zoom)'s reply
Thank you Eddy for your kind words. It has been a pleasure to work with you and your wife.
Marriage and Relationship Counseling
Heidi R.
Nov 18, 2025
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From Google
Pastor Tom has listened and approached my issues with professionalism and kindness. The 2 sessions that Ive had so far, have helped me with my thought pattern and I now have a better outlook for my relationships.
Pastor Tom Counseling (by Zoom)'s reply
Thank you so much Heidi!
haress F.
Oct 7, 2025
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From Google
Thoughtful, insightful, patient and knowledgeable; Pastor Tom doesn't just listen and ask how you feel, but delves into deeper reasons that help explain why, identify patterns and provide feedback and tools that can be utilized day 1, and educates the individuals and couples regarding actionable items to put into use immediately. We started seeing Pastor Tom for pre-marital counseling and have continued regular visits throughout our 1st year of marriage and beyond to guide us and successfully navigate challenges. Best decision we made and will only use him going further! He is different from all the rest, and well worth it!
Pastor Tom Counseling (by Zoom)'s reply
Thank you for your kind words Haress!!! I have thoroughly enjoyed working with you.
S!ayd S.
Nov 10, 2025
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From Google
Outstanding gentleman, really has been helping with what to do in our relationship from day one. His words and steps have helped us and only being two meetings with pastor Tom. Looking forward to our other meetings and thankful for his help.
Pastor Tom Counseling (by Zoom)'s reply
Thank you so much Slayd.
Ciera A.
Nov 11, 2025
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From Google
We have really enjoyed our sessions with Pastor Tom! After just two sessions, weve already learned so much about our relationship and how to better understand each other. Hes given us great guidance and tools to help during times of disagreement, and its made such a difference in how we communicate. I truly look forward to continuing to work with Pastor Tom and highly recommend him to any couple looking to strengthen their relationship.
Pastor Tom Counseling (by Zoom)'s reply
Thank you Ciera for your kind words.
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FAQs
What should the customer know about your pricing (e.g., discounts, fees)?
I believe quality relationship counseling should be affordable, with flexible options to fit your needs.
❤️ FREE 30-Minute Conversation — $0
🌿 First 60-Minute Session — $45
💬 Single 60-Minute Session — $75
🤝 5-Session Package — $350 (Save $25)
🏡 10-Session Package — $650 (Save $100)
🎁 BONUS: The 10-session package includes my "30 Days Back to Us" daily relationship email series.
There is never any pressure to purchase a package. After our first session, you decide what works best for you.
What is your typical process for working with a new customer?
We begin with a FREE 30-minute conversation to discuss your concerns and answer your questions.
Our first full session gives me an opportunity to listen to your story, understand your relationship challenges, and help identify what may be keeping you stuck.
From there, we'll develop a practical plan based on your specific needs. My approach focuses on helping you understand what's happening beneath the surface of your struggles and providing tools you can begin using right away.
What education and/or training do you have that relates to your work?
I hold a Bachelor's degree in Pastoral Ministry and am an ordained pastor with over 40 years of experience helping people navigate life's challenges.
I am a Gottman Institute Certified Therapist, with specialized training in understanding relationship dynamics, improving communication, managing conflict, and rebuilding emotional connection.
My approach combines extensive real-life experience, relationship education, and practical tools couples can use in everyday life.
